Seven things that women do that they try to keep from men

Let’s be honest—everyone has their little quirks, and girls are no exception. There are certain things women do, but they rarely (if ever) admit them, either because they seem embarrassing, too personal, or just something they’d rather keep to themselves. Whether it’s about hygiene habits, social interactions, or little guilty pleasures, here are nine things girls do but won’t easily confess to.

1. Stalking People on Social Media Like an FBI Agent

Girls have an unmatched talent for gathering information online. Whether it’s checking out their crush, an ex’s new girlfriend, or even a random person they met once at a party, they know how to dig deep. They will find out your pet’s name, your childhood best friend, and what your mom posted five years ago on Facebook—all without even following you. But if you ask them? “Oh no, I barely use social media.”

Why They Do It:

Curiosity is human nature, and sometimes, a little harmless online investigation helps satisfy that curiosity.

2. Taking a Million Selfies and Only Posting One

Ever wondered why that one Instagram selfie looks so perfect? It’s because behind that single picture are at least 50 others that didn’t make the cut. Girls will spend ages finding the right lighting, angling their face just right, and capturing their best side—all before spending even more time choosing the perfect filter.

Why They Do It:

Social media is all about presenting the best version of yourself, and girls like to make sure their pictures are flawless before posting.

3. Wearing the Same Bra for Days

Let’s be real—bras are expensive and not exactly the most comfortable thing to wear. So, if a bra is still in good shape and doesn’t smell, chances are it’s getting reused for several days in a row. Washing it after every single wear? Unlikely. But if you ask a girl, she’ll probably tell you she changes it every day.

Why They Do It:

Comfort and convenience. Also, unlike underwear, bras don’t get dirty as quickly, so most women don’t see the need to wash them after just one wear.

4. Practicing Conversations in the Mirror

Before an important conversation—whether it’s a confrontation, a job interview, or even a casual chat with their crush—many girls rehearse what they’re going to say in the mirror. They’ll test different tones, facial expressions, and responses, ensuring they’re fully prepared.

Why They Do It:

It helps build confidence and reduces the chances of awkward pauses or forgetting what to say.

5. Smelling Their Own Clothes to See If They Can Wear Them Again

If an outfit was worn but didn’t get noticeably dirty, many girls will give it a quick sniff test to decide if it’s good for another round. Especially jeans, jackets, or sweaters—those can go days, sometimes weeks, without being washed.

Why They Do It:

Doing laundry takes time and effort, so if an item still smells fine, why not wear it again?

6. Imagining What Their Crush's Last Name Would Look Like with Their First Name

It might sound cliché, but it happens. When a girl has a crush on someone, she might secretly doodle their last name next to her first name, imagining what it would look like if they got married. It’s harmless fun, but most will never admit to doing it.

Why They Do It:

It’s part of the fantasy of a perfect romance, and it’s fun to think about what could be.

7. Crying for No Reason, Then Blaming It on Something Else

Sometimes, emotions just hit out of nowhere. A girl might start crying without fully understanding why, then later blame it on a sad movie, a stressful day, or even "hormones" when someone asks.

Why They Do It:

Emotions can be overwhelming, and crying is a natural way to release them. But admitting they don’t know why they’re crying might seem embarrassing.

8. Checking Other Girls Out (and Sometimes Feeling a Bit Jealous)

While guys might think they’re the only ones who check out women, the truth is that girls do it too. Whether it’s admiring another girl’s outfit, makeup, or body, they notice everything. And sometimes, if they see someone who looks exceptionally good, they might feel a tiny bit jealous.

Why They Do It:

Women appreciate beauty in all forms, and sometimes, a little comparison is inevitable.

9. Replaying Old Conversations and Thinking About Better Comebacks

Ever had an argument or an awkward conversation and then later thought of the perfect response? Girls do this all the time. Whether it’s an old fight, an embarrassing moment, or even just a casual chat where they felt they could’ve been wittier, they replay the conversation in their minds and think about what they should have said.

Why They Do It:

It’s human nature to analyze past interactions, and thinking of better responses helps prepare for similar situations in the future.

At the end of the day, everyone has little quirks and habits they don’t readily admit to, and these are just a few things girls secretly do. Whether it’s harmless social media stalking, planning conversations in the mirror, or daydreaming about romance, these habits are more common than most people realize.

Did any of these sound familiar? Let me know in the comments if you or someone you know does these things but won’t admit it!